9th Entry

Ok I really need to come up with a question to a response I've already formed or some sort of new idea. My main points I have reached through blogging is that acceptance is what drives human beings, the need to be accepted for our true selves (to have someone love our flaws just as much as our "perfections") to be completely understood by someone other than ourselves and still be accepted by them, that is the ideal everyone is searching for, but we make it difficult for others and with that nature we make it difficult for ourselves to find and achieve the acceptance we thrive for. The acceptance we thrive for can come in many different ways, but the most popularizied is popular that of love. But even with our drive for acceptance and acknowledgement of our need for acceptance shown to us throughout life with personal experience and experience from others, we make it difficult for others to find acceptance, let them into our lives and give them acceptance. So I guess my ultimate question is Why do we make it so difficult for others to achieve acceptance, and with this in our nature it ultimaetely makes it difficult for otherselves to achieve acceptance? I keep making the same points so I am going to list them instead of making a big long paragraph like I have been doing:
-Human's feel insecure with their standing with such a strong desire for acceptance, and if it is reached there is hesitance to go out of their way and risk their standing with acceptance it will be difficult to help someone else in their quest for acceptance
-When there is someone else a person can help with acceptance, it gives reassurance that they are not the worst off and their is someone lower than them, this makes a human feel superior and in charge of life which often is difficult
-It is difficult to step down from a superior position and move to an inferior position to help another
-I am not making these points as a generialization in every situation, but there are natural thoughts in everyone's minds of fear of being misaccepted or outcasted for helping another in their quest for acceptance
-Okay so my main point is that there is an inherent desire for acceptance engrained in every human being, which creates a hesitance to help others in their quest for acceptance
I don't think it is a selfish way of people, but I think it is out of fear. Fear of their need being demolished, which I don't think it is selfish, it could be considered selfish by some but that isn't what I am arguing, but there is a fear/hesitance installed in human beings with the desire of acceptance, they correlate (arguement point thing we used today) in that with such a strong desire the fear of not fufilling this desire stalls our compassion for others in their quest for acceptance. so since the desire is so strong with it being so difficult to achieve we make it difficult for others to achieve acceptance to, it is like a never-ending cycle that is hard to break.